Monday, January 16, 2006

Proposed. Engagement.

I was told today by one of my co-workers that I now have a fiancé.

"Interesting and scary", I thought. Just 24-hours ago I had a girlfriend.

Last night I gave the talk/sermon/talk at the gathering. I spoke on faith.

The main idea of the talk was to look at the perspective of faith...not the idea of faith, but rather, the object of our faith -- Jesus.

I'm not quite sure how good of a job I did. There were a few moments where I blundered and forgot to say some things. In addition, I'm not sure how effective the talk was, so I'm not quite sure how well it was received. My hope was that it hit the home of everyone's heart. If that happened, then I am happy.

Last night's talk had two purposes: give a talk on faith and then make a transition to propose to MaryAnn in presence of our community.

Toward the end of my talk, I spoke on the idea of faith and marriage--and my internal/mental struggles with it. As I made the transition into that realm, I asked MaryAnn to stand up and look toward the back on the sanctuary. At first she was reluctant and asked "why". I responded with "just turn around."

When she did, she saw her entire family sitting in the last row. That was one of my gifts to her. I thought it to be a good to sneak her family into the sanctuary and be present for the proposal.

Upon seeing her family, she immediately knew what was coming next. But instead of proposing to her, I continued talking a wee-bit longer. I proceeded to thank Greg for the opportunity and then spoke to the crowd. In the mean while, MaryAnn was on the edge of her seat--rooting me on--to hurry up with the proposal. It was actually quite cute.

So, then, I said, walking toward her, "I've never done this before ... umm...MaryAnn, can I have your hand in marriage."

I'm thankful she said yes. Phew!

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great story. I wouldn't worry about stumbling on your speech -- I hear Jesus grades on a curve.

Congrats. Do her right, amigo. I was weirded out by having a fiancée myself, 8 years ago. It gets even weirder when she becomes su esposa.

Anonymous said...

Felizidades cousin, welcome to the realm of engagement. I too proposed this July; we were in Cancun when Hurricane Emily hit. My plans to propose at sea got interupted by being evacuated from our hotel to be sent to an albergue or(shelter). Take care and congratulations again!

Mo said...

Ramon, I'm so excited! You guys are a match made in heaven and a great example of godly courtship.

Anonymous said...

Hey Ramon, glad to hear the good news, congratulations, here I was thinking wow Ramon was preaching, wish i'ld of seen it but for the whole community to be involved in your proposal, what a blessing. Your marriage in in my prayers for all the Lord's blessings and happiness. Your brother in Christ,

Jason Fowler

MrH said...

Ramon,
Congrats to you and your future wife! We were avoiding making everyone sick, home with the flu, but we are so excited for you two! Much love,
Adam, Michelle, Victoria, and Sebastian.

Anonymous said...

Ooh, Bro! Congratulations sir - to be at this point in both your relationship with God and with MaryAnn is a huge achievement, and I'm so proud of you. Keep me updated - I'll be praying for all the roads you're walking together now.

Love in Christ,

Josh Krage (a(a)

Anonymous said...

Ramon & MaryAnn -

I love you both and am so happy for you! Congratuations and best of luck on your new journey together! I am excited to see what great things God has in store.
:)
Erin

Marie said...

You are starting a long and rewarding partnership. I am happy that you found each other and are able to share you love and strong faith with us.

Jon & I give you our best wishes

Marie